Night Angel, I wrote some time ago because I had no idea how to find out about a girl's body, I didn't know the right places to touch her, but since then I've tried lots of ways to please my new girl and now we want to try something a little different. My girlfriend and I have discussed having sex while she is menstruating (having her period). Is this safe? jakeamany

Jakeamany, it's great to hear that you have learnt so much about a girl and to have come so far with your new girlfriend. You must be really touching places that make her feel good if she wants to try something a little different with you. Having sex with a girl / woman that is menstruating is perfectly natural. Although some may disagree. What you need to remember is that there will of course be a mess and if that doesn't turn you off then go for it. A girl can experience lots of pleasure when she is menstruating and I have known men to oral to girls at this time. They never got ill from the experience. If you both agree to try it, then yes it is safe to do so. But also remember that if you are practising safe sex this is still a time to do that. Have fun...