I met this girl online and we had a date. I never thought dating services online could help me but it did. She's one sweet babe and we seem to get on fine but I want to invite her out again. Do you think it is right for me to call her even though we only went out a few days ago? Is it too early to start romancing her? Jericodrom

Jericodrom first up, congratulations! YOu have to be one of the lucky ones to meet someone special. And what's even more special is that she gave you her phone number. If she didn't find you fun to be with or want to go out once more, she wouldn't have given you her phone number. So here is what I am suggesting you do. Call her. Thank her for a fantastic night out. Listen to her voice and if she is happy and cheerful and is delighted to hear from you, ask her if she would like to go out to dinner at her favorite restaurant.

Organize to meet her there this time and be on time. You really don't want to rush the friendship or the relationship. I don't know how far you went on your first date, so for now, this is my best advice for you. Jericodrom, it is never too early to start romancing someone. If she responds, then you know you are on the right track. And remember throughout all this, have fun with that someone special.

I’ve planned a special picnic down by the river and I want to encourage my girl to have sex outdoors or to at least relax and see how far we go. Any thoughts would be good…

Sam enjoying a great picnic down by the river sounds like a lot of fun. Pack a cozy blanket to sit and lay on, and some small cushions, for comfort of course. Oh and don’t forget to the insect spray. Don’t push her into sex, just take it slowly. Kissing is good, touching and holding and being sensual is fantastic.

Outdoor sex is fantastic and the pleasures are incredible, but take into account that there may be other people down by the river so always find somewhere private. Don’t push your girl into doing something she doesn’t want to do, but if she is relaxed then go with the flow.