I just found out that I m pregnant, my first. I’m very concerned about sex during my pregnancy, I know a pregnant woman can still enjoy sexual intercourse during pregnancy. However I’m not sure which positions I should avoid enjoying so as not to hurt our baby. I absolutely get great stimulation from all positions and have sex in every one of them regularly. Is there certain ones I should not do as my pregnancy develops over the months till delivery? Sandra B.

SandraB, congratulations! Lots of women are concerned about sex when they first fall pregnant, especially when it is their first time, so I do understand your concerns. I have always looked at sex as being very enjoyable and if you enjoyed sex before you fell pregnant, there should be no reason why you wouldn't enjoy it now. You need to go to your midwife or obstertrician and speak to them about you having sex while you are pregnant. Tell them your concerns and they will suggest what you can do to ease your concerns so that you will keep enjoying sex until you are full term.

I found sex to be very enjoyable during pregancy and the best positions I found were to be on top of the man, from behind, laying on my side... Be in control of every movement, if it hurts you, change positions. But most importantly, talk to your medical team who are looking after you. I don't work in the medical profession so you really do need to get some advice from them. All the best.. Night Angel.

My fantasy is about to come true. I'm going to have sex with two men! Now, I know what I see in porn movies, but we all
know that's not real sex, it's just supposed to look good. What positions are most comfortable in a real-life threesome? In The Middle in Ipswich

I am sure you will have a lot of fun in a threesome. Real life ones are the best especially if it is a fantasy coming true for you. I'm not sure why you feel that what you see in porn movies isn't real, because if it isn't, it sure isn't fake. A lot of girls actually get a lot of enjoyment out of a threesome and yes it can happen in a movie also. Most of the time there is nothing fake about movies, you can tell what is real and what isn't.

When you experience your threesome, the positions can vary and it depends on what you feel comfortable doing. Depending on what you aim to experience during your threesome can alter or change the positions you find yourself in. Personally and I have experienced this myself during a photoshoot for my own site, I love sucking a guy while the other takes me from behind, or I like a guy licking my pussy while I suck the other. It just depends on the moment and what you want to try. If you decide you'd like to be double penetrated, this will alter your positions also. Riding one cock while the other guys slides in from behind is a good position. It depends on you and the moment. There is one thing that you need to remember... enjoy this moment and remember that each feeling is very real.

My wife likes to play with herself when we have sex. I'd really like to help her out by giving her a hand once in a while. What positions will make it easier for me to reach her clit? Eric P Sydney

Eric I've found that the easiest positions to be in where you will both enjoy playing with your wife include the following: Have her lay on her back with her legs up over your shoulders. Not only do you get to see your cock sliding in and out but her pussy is open and she can play with her clit and so can you. The other ways I believe would help is for her to lay on her side or take her from behind. I'm sure your hands and fingers can reach... And I am sure you will both enjoy these pleasures.

I have only had intercourse with two different girls so far. Not more then about seven or eight times combined and only twice in the ‘doggy position’. I have read that most females prefer the ‘doggy fashion’ position the best. I liked it tremendously myself because it felt like I had more control of my movements. Why do they prefer this position, do they get more stimulation from it? Andy M.

The doggy position is great for girls who like to feel more it more and it does give a girl lots of different sensations. Personally it is one of my favorite positions. People often call it the 'O' position because it makes a girl go'ohhh' when a guy takes her from behind. In answer to your question... yes a girl does get more stimulation from this position and I know that many guys enjoy taking a girl from behind.

I have seen pictures and movies where a woman gets double penetrated by two big studs. I want to feel this sensation too. How can I prepare my body to take the obvious stretching, I don’t want to be ripped apart. DeeCee

DeeCee the best way I believe would be to experiment with various size toys. If you want to play it safe, start small and work your way up to the larger size toys. Always remember though, there is nothing like the real thing and even though you may have used toys on your ass or pussy, it may still hurt and stretch a little. Once you are used to the size of two cocks penetrating you at the same time, you will enjoy it... Have fun... Night Angel.

So, my wife and I have found the G-spot with fingers and sex toys, and it's great! But what sexual positions are best for hitting it with the penis? I'm not hung like a porn star; if anything, I'm a little under the average. Slim Jimmy

Slim Jimmy, it's great that you and your wife have discovered the g-spot. The incredible orgasms you can both experience together is fantastic. Sometimes it is hard for a guy to hit that special spot with the penis. The best way to try this so that your cock appears to slide in deeper and hit spots that need to be hit, is with your girl laying down with her legs up and as you slide your cock into her, let her play too, by rubbing her clit. I'm not promising this will work, but it is worth a try.

I'm pregnant, and only going to be getting bigger! But at the same time, my appetite for sex is going full-blast! What are some positions my husband and I can try that will help us out as my belly swells? One Hot Mama.

One Hot Mama, lots of women are interested in knowing which position or positions are best when they are pregnant. I know With your tummy getting bigger, it's up to you what feels comfortable for you. The positions I suggest are doggie or riding your husband. That way there is no pressure on your belly at all. Perhaps even on your side and he takes you from behind. That is a popular position that some women try. Best of luck with the birth of your child and have fun along the way.

What positions are best for anal sex? We're both first-timers at this, and want to be as gentle as possible. My girlfriend is a small woman, and my dick is a little bigger than average. How can I make this easier? N.M. Sydney

N.M. Sydney, I have found the best way to experience anal sex especially since this is the first time for both you and your
girlfriend is to let her ride you. I know that may seem a little bizarre but letting her take control is the best way to begin. But before you even venture into anal sex, play a little first and you can do this by performing oral sex and with plenty of waterbased lube you can help loosen her anal passage a little before she slides her ass down over your cock.

When she starts insert your cock into her ass, don't rush ok. Let her take control and let her get accustom to your size before racing ahead which may stop her from enjoying the experience. Once your girlfriend is able to take your cock, you will always have to remember not to rush this process, she needs to be relaxed and she needs to tell you when she is ready for you to take her hard.

Another position to try once she is able to take your cock in her ass, is for her to lay on her back and with her legs up you can slide your cock in to her and finally I love being take from behind. This is another great position but only try it once she is used to the size of your cock. Come back when you've tried the different positions and let me know which position you tried and if you both enjoyed it. The best thing to remember is to keep your girlfriend relaxed and don't rush.

I want longer attention to my vagina. Guys seem to go down on me and I love it. I get very hot and orgasmic. However once I do orgasm with them doing oral on me, they move on to the next position. How can I tell them that I want more and more oral attention? I feel unsatisfied orally. OrgasmicPenny.

OrgasmicPenny, I really do feel for you. There are some guys who are so turned on by giving you an orgasm that they just want to experience once themselves. Perhaps suggesting a different position but one where they will continue licking you and giving you the oral attention you need. Or talk to them and challenge them to giving you multiple orgasms while they perform oral sex on you.

It can be done, all you need to do is say something. Tell them what you want. As for the other different position I was talking about - well... if you had started on your back with them between your legs, then change positions so you are over him in the 69 position. Lick him, while you suck him or stroke him. The pleasures can be all yours if you speak up and tell the guy what you want and what you need. Night Angel.

Hi, my name is Louisandy and my partner and I love giving each other oral. We often take in turns giving oral and sometimes we enjoy the 69 position. Do you have any thoughts on how to make our oral sessions more exciting?

Giving oral to each other is an incredible experience and it is great that you both enjoy it. Blowjobs and a pussy licking until you both reach climax is wonderful because a lot of couples don't enjoy giving pleasure to each other like that. My thoughts on making that experience better for you... you really didn't tell me a lot about how you give each other oral so on that basis, here is what I believe will help. Try playing with toys while you are licking her pussy, or even a little anal play. Gently of course.

When your partner is sucking you talk to her, tell her all the things you would like to do to her. You may be surprised to find how a little dirty talk will turn her on while she sucks you.