My wife arranged a weekend threesome for us with one of her girlfriends. The first night my wife would not do much with her friend, like she backed out of the idea. The second night we all started off with petting and caressing and then my wife left the room. Her girlfriend and I continued having wild sex for two more nights without my wife. She told us to continue, but now she wants payback for what she arranged, she wants me to let her spend a weekend with a guy she admires. Was I set up, maybe? Donaldvee.

Donald, I don't think you were set up. What I think is happening is your wife is looking at fulfilling some fantasies that she is having. It's possible that your wife wants to see you with another woman and sometimes the thought of it turns a woman on until it is time to do something with her. Enjoy the experience and live a fantasy. As for her spending a weekend with a guy she admires, well I'm not her so I don't know if it is a set up in that regards, but you can make it so that you both enjoy it too. If you are a little kinky, have her phone you while she is enjoying herself, ask her to share what happens between the two of them... or you could ask her directly why she wants to spend a weekend with that guy and if that was what was on her mind at the time she let you have fun with her girlfriend.

I am really interested in finding out what is the difference between a male and a female's orgasm and who would you say would have the most intense orgasm and is there really any way to tell? iloveorgasms

iloveorgasms, wow now that is an interesting question and I had to ask a friend of mine if he cold tell the difference between a male and a female orgasm. The most evident difference is the type of fluid that is ejaculatated. When a male experiences an orgasm his enjaculate is opaque in color and I know of some guy's who say that their sperm also contains 'chunky bits'. when a female orgasms sometimes you can't even see the ejaculate that a woman produces unless she gushes or squirts. From experience I can say that the fluid that a female squirts is almost like a clear liquid which is not urine.

It is hard to tell who would have the most intense orgasm, because I believe and know from experience that both a male and a female can experience an intense orgasm. All my information is from my experiences... I hope it helps..

Do penis pumps really work, will they make my penis bigger? What penis enlargement program would you suggest men use if they want to increase the size of their penis?

Mariogoesforit, it's quite interesting that many men feel that using a penis pump will make their penis bigger. In a way it is true, but I have read that theat length doesn't last, unlike other penis enlargement programs. The penis enlargement program I wouls suggest is one that you will feel comfortable with. Looking online and viewing the different statistics and recommendations by medical practioners or specialists will be the ones I'd focus on. I know of several men who have opted for Viagra, herbal products, and programs that include a stretching device.

Please remember that these programs don't work for everyone and I am not a medical practitioner and if you choose a program that suits your needs remember that nothing happens overnight, you need to stick with it for the required time to see results.

I have a small problem. I try very hard to keep my erection happening but it goes down very quickly if something distracts me. I'd like to try some different products to help me sustain an erection but I am not sure what to do. I can't talk to my mates and I am too embarrassed to go to see my doctor. I need some advice if you can help me please. jerrycantdo

Hi jerrycantdo, you aren't alone but then you possibly don't want to hear that. It is a fact of life that a distraction can cause something like this to happen. I understand you can't talk to your mates and seeing your doctor may cause issues too but sometimes you need to talk to someone. Please talk to your partner or your doctor about this issue. Letting those issues build inside you will cause other problems too.

Seeing your doctor is one step just to ensure your body will handle products that are avialable to sustain an erection. There are many options available and personally I would be going with a recommended herbal brand. One that has been approved my medical practioners and even though the affects won't happen over night there is the possibility that it will work. Everyone is different so these products may affect men in different ways. If you tell me more, I could possibly offer other solutions... all I have to go on is that something is distracting you. Perhaps finding a room where you won't be distracted while having sex may be another option. Come back and let me know what you decide to do... Night Angel.

Help.... I need help finding a condom that fits. All my mates boast how they love bareback sex and don't get me wrong, I do too but I'm not in a full time relationship at the moment and I like to play it safe. But I can't find a condom that fits. Any ideas would be appreciated. Thanks, playingitsafejoe.

playingitsafejoe, rest assured, you are not alone in this world. There are many guys out there who can't find condoms to fit
them no matter what size they are. When you have to rely on the products that are sold in Chemists or Drugstores, or even in the supermarkets it is really a case of trying until you find the right one. However I have noticed a few places online now where you can measure and order condoms to fit.

Naked Angel, in your opinion does size really matter and if a guy doesn't have the size that a lot of men wish they had, how can they please a girl or their partner? sizematters69.

sizematters69, in my own personal opinion, depending on the circumstances and the guy, size may matter to him. To me, personally, it is not the size that counts, but how the guy users his cock that matters. Having said that, a guy can have a small cock and still please me and if we both are satisfied after our time together, I'm happy. At the same time, I know many guys who aren't happy with their size and if you aren't then perhaps look at your situation and if you can rectify that issue, then you will be happy. And your sex life will benefit.

For guys who don't have the size and don't think they can please a girl, remember sex is not just about intercourse. Although some will argue that case. Think of ways that you can please a girl, oral sex, g-spot play, anal sex. I'll write an article one day on different ways to please your girl and one on does size really matter.

Night Angel, my names keithnerber I've just met a girl who I really like, but apart from quick pecks when I was younger, I really don't know how to kiss properly. What should I do... are there any rules and regulations when it comes to kissing someone?

keithnerber, I really had to think about this for a moment, not because I don't know how to kiss, but because everyone is different. There really aren't any rules and regulations either when it comes to kissing but there are some things for you to keep in mind. If you are going to kiss a girl for the very first time, watch out for garlic breath or bad breath. That is a huge turn off rather than a turn on. Also you might like to think about being natural. Going with the flow when it comes to kissing is a must. If you fake it, or if you put too much into a kiss, it really isn't all that natural.

Another dislike that most girls can't handle is a sloppy kisser. That is, all slobber. I could write a complete article on kissing but unfortunately I can't do that here. However if you want to practice kissing, start with gentle kisses, or be honest and with your girl and let her know that she is really the first person you have kissed.

Hi Night Angel, it's Aimtoplease and I tried what you suggested. My girlfriend loved me taking my time and letting her enjoy a fantastic orgasm. What I want to know how is how I can take those special times further and should I suggest we use toys when we play.

That is what I like to hear. All it takes is for you both to slow down and enjoy each other and giving her a real orgasm that is intense and enjoyable is fantastic especially when you use your tongue. Before you suggest using toys, I think what you should do is talk to her about using a toy. But at the same time encourage her to help you look for one that she feels she will be comfortable with. Remember the pleasure is for both of you.

You also need to remember that the first toy you choose may not necessarily be the one that will work it's magic, it may take a few before you find one that your girlfriend is comfortable with. You can look online or if you dare you can venture into an adult shop together and take a look at what they have. If you feel comfortable with the person behind the counter (a girl) find out what she thinks about that toy. She may be able to recommend some that others have tried and loved. Always remember to have fun and the pleasures are for both of you to enjoy... Night Angel

My new girl keeps asking me about my other girlfriends and she makes me feel very uncomfortable sharing those times with her. When I tell her something she often gets jealous because a lot of the things I once did, I don't do with her because she doesn't like doing them. How can I tell her to leave it without upsetting her? Sliverysam

Sliverysam... wow, what a tough question to ask. I say it's tough because many girls react to past girlfriends differently. I believe they want to be better than they are and that is why they ask and then get upset when they realize that they are nothing like past girlfriends. Keeping your past to yourself is often the best and if she asks you a question, tell her that one day when she is comfortable trying something like that, then you will. But only when she is comfortable.

The best way around talking about past girlfriends, is to share what you both have experienced together, not with past partners. Talk about what you enjoy with her and how good those times are, make her feel good and she will forget about asking what you once did with past girlfriends. It's a tough question to answer because everyone is different...

I’ve been going out with my girl for 9 months now and she has never had an orgasm. I’m not sure why, and I’m starting to wonder if it is because I don’t turn her on?

LVG, many women experience difficulties when they try to have an orgasm. There are some women in this world who have never had one and haven’t even come close to reaching an orgasm. Personally I remember many years ago when I couldn’t achieve an orgasm and it wasn’t until my partner took matters into his own hands.

Now this may not work for every woman but you can take control and help her. If you can get her to relax enough, touching her, playing with her and letting her enjoy each sensation that you create, it may just happen.

I found that focusing too much on trying to achieve an orgasm, just simply didn’t work for me. So that if from personal experience. But my thoughts are that you could try sensual massages and performing oral sex on her may work. You do need to remember a few things though.

Don’t rush her.

Don’t keep asking her if she is close.

Don’t ask her if it’s working.

Encourage her by letting her enjoy all those sensations you create for her. If she is relaxed enough, she may be able to experience an orgasm.